Tuesday 17 November 2015

When Dreams & Fantasy Becomes Reality - Officially soulmates.

"I never thought that I could meet someone like you.
You are my friend.
You are my smile.
You are my everything.
You are a breath-taking reflection of God's heart for me.. 
Of how he pursued me.. 
and loved me when when i didn't love myself.
You held my hand in the darkness and you pulled me out into the light.
I love you." 
- Bride's Vow

So, it's been 4 months 10 days since I've stepped into a new chapter - Married Life!

Many has been asking, how's married life?

Well, my answer to it is. I've no idea myself. I don't really feel like i'm married cause even though it's been months, it still feels like an unforgettable dream i'll never want to wake up from. Well, I get to see my husband much easily now than before, I get to stay over his place and snuggle in his arms during bedtime, wake up to him looking at me lovingly, watching each and every single thing he does. It feels good to be married actually, i'm loving & enjoying it!

It's also a learning process, that i'm learning every single day with my husband and in-laws. Adapting into another life with another family involved as part of your life besides your parents at the beginning was awkward. There are thousand and one things to learn as a wife. Well, I guess i'm pretty much getting there so far, still learning, still adapting.

Staying with someone and learning more about them, embracing habits and still loving the person unconditionally. It's something that amazes me. Of course, it's never been smooth all days long. And sometimes we fight but being married, it's easier to end the fight on a good night - Forgive & Forget. Which I feel is really important in any relationship.

The day we said our vows and promises as husband and wife:
We are now as one,
In sickness and in health,
In riches and in poverty,
In happiness and in sadness,
until forever & eternity.

I can't explain my emotions that were running through me that very day, but it was a mixture of nerves, happiness, sadness, love, admiration, and heartfelt warmth.

I'm still thankful for him as a husband, and right now i'm missing him so bad. These photos and all aren't doing any good with me missing him and being unwell.

Lastly, just in case you guys are wondering where I've disappeared too. I'm still right here, and enjoying every moment of married life. Just that I've been really busy with work presently. I promise to start having some form of life once my current project ends. Therefore, dear friends please bare with me during this period. I miss you guys heaps and tons! Wait for me, alright?

Meanwhile, I'll leave the wedding details for another blog post when it's not past midnight and when I've the luxury of time to blog one really long post.

I haven't had the chance to really thank every single person yet. So i'll definitely do my speech. Well, i did upload the morning highlights on facebook only to have it removed by them due to breech of copyrighted music. Well, i'll get that fixed. So.. patience! ;) 


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